- What methods are you using?
- What’s the difference between what you do and Cognitive
Behavioural Therapy (CBT)?
- I’ve heard of the Lightning Process and Alex mentions it
in his book – is that something you use?
- What about Reverse Therapy/Mickel Therapy?
- How do sessions work?
1. What methods are you using?
The methods we use are a combination of all of our research in traditional
psychology, NLP, hypnotherapy, EFT, and various other modalities,
together with our experiences of what worked for us in our own
individual cases, and for those of the hundreds of people we have
worked with. We integrate many aspects of different therapies,
rather than working with only one method, because we recognise
that every individual is different and every case of M.E is different.
We know (as we are sure you do!) that what works for one person
will not necessarily work for another; our aim is to be best equipped
to find what works best for each patient.
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2. What’s the difference between what you do and Cognitive
Behavioural Therapy (CBT)?
Both our work and CBT focus on changing the thinking and anxiety
patterns. However, there are some very significant differences.
CBT’s aim is to empower patients to feel more positive about their
illness. Our aim is to help them to recover.
CBT focuses on changing negative thought patterns into positive thought
patterns – what we call ‘rationalising’ the thought. We take the
view that if the thought has already been triggered, you have already
sent your body into a stress state and into rationalising, (when
these initial thoughts are not rational to begin with), and therefore
is not the most effective way of changing how your body responds.
Moreover, rationalising with fear, takes even more energy, when the
result we want is to use less energy thinking! Our approach
and methods, therefore, work on changing the way we think, the structure
of our thinking, and our entire focus – to change the relationship
between mind and body.
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3. I’ve heard of the Lightning Process and Alex mentions
it in his book – is that something you use?
Alex’s book was responsible for originally introducing The Lightning
Process as a treatment for M.E.; he was part of the first ever Lightning
Process training seminar for practitioners, and in fact was asked
to put together the book on the subject (although ultimately he chose
not to). Alex has also been further developing and refining the
methods within The Lightning Process throughout his professional
career, but he chose not to remain associated with the technique,
or even continue to use its name. This was primarily because he
was unhappy with how it was being marketed with extremely over-inflated
claims of success rates, and the blaming of delegates for not using
it properly when they did not get better.
In our approach, we use the development of the Lightning Process
as a part of what we do. For some people it can indeed seem like
a miraculous solution, but for others M.E. is a more complex illness
and in reality, if there was one ‘quick-fix’ for M.E then no-one
would be ill any more! We also feel from our own recovery process
and that of hundreds of others, that to discount the physical aspect
of the illness is to ignore a vital factor in healing. We are, after
all, a mind, body and spirit, rather than just one of these. For
these reasons, none of our practitioners are licensed Lightning Process
practitioners anymore.
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4. What about Reverse Therapy/Mickel Therapy?
When Anna was ill, one of the major factors in her recovery was the
recognition that her body – emotionally and physically – was a
‘feedback’ mechanism, and that at least some of the emotional and
symptomatic information she was getting had to be in some way ‘useful’.
She understood that this information would be key in helping her
to get well, that her body had an innate intelligence, and that
by working in harmony with this, by learning to speak its language,
we are more likely to create a state of health.
As a clinic, therefore, we have always sought to incorporate these
ideas into our approach in ways most useful to the patient.
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5. How do sessions work?
We offer treatment on the psychology side of the clinic in three
ways:
- The 90 Day Programme: This
is the clinics groundbreaking psychology based training course
for M.E. – further information follows, and full details can be
found at www.The90DayProgramme.com
- Face to face sessions: These take place at the clinic
in Central London, and there is also some availability in Darlington.
Initial sessions are usually 1 ½ - 2 hours, and follow up sessions
usually last an hour.
- Telephone sessions: These sessions are appropriate if
you are either unable to travel, or for ongoing support after The
90 Day Programme. Initial sessions are usually an hour, with follows
up sessions of forty-five minutes.
The best way to find out which of these is most appropriate for
you is in a 15 minute chat.
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